The scars and wounds of love betrayal are so deep that they never heal. They stay there to remind us of our pain amd loss. Loss of love, faith, life and intrest in everything we ever loved.
The pain never goes, it keeps on simmering below the put up smile and made up face. The fake intrest in life makes it more harder to love life. All the lost dreams and bursted desires, ambitions stand aside and keep teasing us making funny faces at our attempts to fake them.
This genrates the broken trust and dysfunctional nelief system. Which ulti ately leabes a person so lonely and irritated that they start building a wall more higher and from this captivity they themselves can never come out. Lonely souls wandering in the sea of people. You don’t have anyone to share your feelings with,no one to wipe tour tears when you cry, but you become so numb that you dont even cry.
People like me have foumd one source of ranting out the whole thing which is on their mind, through writing and expressing whatever bothers them. Maintaining a diary or a journal is like a copy of converstion with people. You tell everything to it, I mean write every feeling’s each word assuming that You are talking to a person and sharing tour thougjts and ideas. Sometimes tearing off or burning of the pages gives even more satisfaction. This trick may not work 100% for everyone but it does slow downs the pace of racing thoughts. Giving you some control ober your life and time to take right decisions to make your life better if not perfect.
True, writing can help. But time helps too. Be patient.
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Yup…it teaches us how to live with the pain….Atleast in my case its cent percent true.
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Hey, I’m an old man. Please excuse my
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I am sorry, did I say something wrong?
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No. I just thought I was perhaps overstepping in giving advice.
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No. And good advice is always welcome.
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….excuse my coarseness as well as my poor typing. They sat time heals all things. Well, it certainly changes things.
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No you are right in tour place but I feel that some of the things can not be generalised. Yes I agree it changes things, certainly.
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NE ways thanks for stopping by and giving your valuable advice. Patience, as you said is all I have now…let’s see how long it supports me.
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😊
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I just started a journal and I finding it very hard but it does help. Lots of love to you my dear little friend.
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Yes it does, a lot. I have started a book about it and the ways how I cope and all. Believe me it’s worst, I mean to write about the pain..its like reliving it. So I stop writing, for a while and thus gap turns into weeks, sometimes. But will complete it.
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Yes it can be very painful to relive things. You are very brave and a special kind of person. I wanted to do the same but I am not brave enough yet
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Thank you… and no me too not brave enough, that is the reason I am still done with 3rd chapter and still it’s editing is remaining since last 3 weeks.
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Yes slow and steady like the tortoise you can win the race 🐢
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I wish luck to both of us. May be the universe ‘ power with us.
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Yes power to the ladies!
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Yup!
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